Using The Three Helpers In Your Relationship by Ebube Olivia Akueme

Using The Three Helpers In Your Relationship by Ebube Olivia Akueme

One of the biggest challenges that we have today is the way and manner which we communicate in our relationships.

People sometimes forget that we are dealing with people of emotions and the lack of using these words is the main cause of breakdowns in every relationship.

Relationships are gifts in our lives and the way we treat them go a long way in determining the quality of our lives and the way we treat them would go a long way in determining the quality of our lives.

Relationship in this context could be the one that exists between couples, parents and children, friends, business associates, colleagues etc. however hard they might seem or sound, they are very important as they help fix and grow all relationship.

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The helpers are as follows:

Firstly, the use of Please: most people don’t know how to ask for help or favor and thus this word always seem very hard to come by. Learn how to use the word PLEASE.

When you are asking for a favor, do not command, do not demand, but learn how to use the word please as it helps incur a favor.

A word such as this goes a long way to salvage relationships. Learn how to use this word very often.

Secondly, the use of Thank you: Thank you follows up from please. Sometimes people do things out of their freewill or volition and it is left to you to follow up with a thank you.

Gratitude is the appreciation of a favor given or shown to someone. It is being grateful for a favor or kindness. Showing gratitude encourages people to do another.

There is an adage that says, if you say thank you for kindness, it is an avenue to get another.

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Another example of how important the word THANK YOU is curled from (Luke 17: 11 – 19). In summary Jesus cured 10 lepers and only one came back to show appreciation, then Jesus said ‘’were there not ten cleansed?

But where are the nine? Were there not found who returned to give glory except this foreigner? Then Jesus said to the leper, Arise, go your way, your faith has made you well’.

This shows how important showing appreciation for a deed done is.

Thirdly, the use of Am sorry: This is the most important one as it deals with your ego and people really struggle with this in their relationship.

Use this word especially when you have done something wrong either by commission or omission, but some people struggle so hard to voice these words out.

When you are not showing remorse for a deed. There is always a negative energy that is being oozed out which causes tensions in every relationship.

However, one of the reasons people tend to forget the use of these words of these words is because they are common and thus we consider it unnecessary as it skips the mind.

On a final note, these words are very essential and we should never forget these words as they cause relationship to blossom.

When your relationship starts going awry, you can salvage it by bringing yourself to start using these three helpers ~ Ebube Olivia Akueme

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